What to do when things do not go your way?

Some people would say I am exagerating , may be I am. But recently i have been having a series of unfortunate events. What I can do about them is just to reflect on how to avoid them in the future. Many things happened today. I should be grateful just for being alive. But it is just  that sometimes things go wrong , and it has not just been once but many times this week. To start I crashed my car and I had to pay a huge amount of money, I took it fine I even did not care a lot , I was not scared.,I payed that money willingly just to learn a lesson in life. I need to pay a book from the libary because I spilt coffe on it. I took like one hour yesterday to make an invoice and it was returned and I need to rewrite it to get payed. I was planning to have a relaxing supper with my wife and suddenly my parents in law appeared so change of plans , this  week I received less salary than I expected from work . A package I was looking forward to receiving was returned and I lost money again , not to mention this had happened before and I did not learn the lesson.
On my car I can not do anything , accidents will happen again.
from the book that I need to recover I will not borrow any anymore. If needed I will just read it there, at the library.
about the invoice I will correct the mistake and if that person who returned the invoice is acting on bad faith then I will need to evaluate whether to keep this costumer or not .
about parents in law I will try to avoid them . If I see their car or  truck I will just run away and stay in my car
or going to do some shopping while they finish, so I do not have to see them.
About the salary , there is nothing I can do about that . The only way is to have my own business and becoming so rich that I do not depend on anyone's money.
About the package , it is Mexico and in Mexico this sort of things happen  usually because people don't do their job well . As the president said once and I quote : It is in our culture.
So in this case there is not a specific solution to this but to move to a different  country , even when I have a good life here.
Another point is how to get people to respect you..
being responsible and having lots of money is one way , not depending on anyone.
not being playful with people who can hurt you. 
In general my life is going well but I wish I did not have so many misses.

10000 FOR EXPERTISE IN ANY FIELD

So if it takes 10000 hours of practice to become an expert in any field then according to my calculation I  can master 20 different subjects.


I have made my choices

1. English
2. japanese
3. Math
4. latin
5. spanish
6. Foreign affairs
7. automechanics
8. medicine
9. law
10. playing the guitar
11. sport trainer
12. Philosophy
13. writing 
14. painting
15. gardening
16. programming-INGENIERÍA EN COMPUTACIÓN
17. chinese
18. administration-accountancy
19. dancing 
20. both hands dexterity
21. Russian
22. karate
23. typewriting
24. Grooming

I think if I start now I can still make it.So let us record our work on those areas everyday.

WHY DO MISSES HAPPEN

Once again another mistake. This time I broke off one of the bolts that hold the head gasket together. If you ask me why I really do not know the answer but certainly one of the causes is that I did not follow the procedure, even though I checked in you tube and counted the number of turns that I should apply.My mistake is that I was using a big wrench and an extension, so I apply too much force to it.
Now I have to take the bolt out by drilling but I have to be very careful since no contamination may enter to the head gasket whatsoever,